Showing posts with label family history. Show all posts
Showing posts with label family history. Show all posts

Saturday, September 9, 2023

99 on 9th day of 9th month 2023

Expect Miracles!

To honor our prophet, and President of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, I quote him from his Oct 2022 talk entitled, "Overcome the World and Find Rest"
"....my dear brothers and sisters, so many wonderful things are ahead. In comng days, we will see the greatest manifestations of the Savior's power that the world has ever seen.
"Between now and the time He returns with 'power and great glory', He will bestow countless privileges, blessings and MIRACLES upon the faithful."

Journals Record Personal Miracles




















President Nelson continued, "Let Him know through your prayers and your actions that you are serious about overcoming the world. Ask Him to enlighten your mind and send the help you need. Each day, record the thoughts that come to you as you pray; then follow through dilgently. Spend more time in the temple, and seek to understand how the temple teaches you to rise above this fallen world."

Why I Do Family History and Temple Work

It is in this talk that I found my patriarchal blessing's expression of my personal life mission explained.
He said, "Anytime we do anything that helps anyone -- on either side of the veil -- to make and keep their covenants with God, we are helping to gather Israel."

My Miracles Happen Quietly

As I focus on one individual in my family on FamilySearch who is dead, I find memories, photos and records or sources that mention them. My thoughts of them probably surprise them. They may have thought that their life was a hum drum plain vanilla one lived out in obscurity, but I am showing them by my love, focus and concern, that simply is not true. They matter. They matter to me and they matter to God. He knows them individually. 

More than likely, I promised them in the pre-existence that I would find them, and perform for them a work that they cannot do for themselves.

79 not 99

I was born 79 years ago into the very family lineage that would enable me to exercise my gifts and talents of solving mysteries, finding puzzle pieces, and the skills needed for researching, needed to identify each and every one. THE ONE IS IMPORTANT. Mine is a tree with messy roots, meaning many children, many with multiple marriages and all farmers. No one famous. No pioneer heritage. During the pandemic I added over 8,000 names.


 Now I quote President Nelson in his talk given April 2018 "Let Us All Press On"
"Our message to the world is simple and sincere: we invite all of God's children on both sides of the veil to come unto their Savior, receive the blessings of the holy temple, have enduring joy, and qualify for etrnal life."

THIS IS MY BIRTHDAY GIFT TO OUR PROPHET, PRESIDENT RUSSELL M. NELSON! 

 




Wednesday, March 1, 2023

RootsTech2023 and away we go!

Finding Christ's Help in Solving the Puzzle

The serious theme for RootsTech 2023 is "Uniting" people, traditions, stories, memories, technology, innovation, communities and families.













Faith, identity, place and grace-- our stories may be our own, as we connect and belong, shared stories can unite us all. Sister Susan L. Gong said, ""the stories we preserve (in any format) and share through generations can have a lasting impact on our hears and minds."

"I hope," she continues "that we will each make an effort to discover our own family stories, record them and to share them with our children and grandchildren. I hope that we will all gain greater understanding and appreciation for the struggles, courage, faith and sacrifice of those who have gone before... and I pray that we will live lives of goodness to honor their memories and show thanks for the gift of life they have given to us."  

The FUN theme of this week of "Uniting" includes sharing other activities that engage children, youth, young adults and even other luke-warm Latter-day Saint members who view this work, and I quote: it's like "watching paint dry,"

Let's put Jesus Christ back into the center of our focus and allow Him to help us. 

Let's Come Unto Christ

Try writing in a journal, scrapbook, or create any other record of your personal or family history in your favorite format (formats could be paper, digital, audio, etc.)

● Digitize family photos or otherwise preserve heirlooms/memorabilia to share with future generations

● Tell family stories

● Make a family recipe or keep a family tradition

● Learn about the places or time periods of your ancestors’ lives

● Add sources or memories to FamilySearch’s Tree

● Interview a relative

● Study family history-related doctrine or church history (family proclamation, temples, Elijah, etc.)

● Attend the temple

● Babysit for someone who is attending the temple

● Work on your own worthiness in order to attend the temple

As President Gordon B. Hinckley used to say, just "DO IT," and I say do it with a S.M.I.L.E.

SHARING

MEMORIES

IS 

LAUDABLY/LAUGHINGLY

EXCITING


Thursday, June 1, 2017

MOVING

Moving is as Big a Change as a Divorce or Death in the Family

     The actual move to Mexico was involved. It required going through all of my mother’s “stuff” and sorting it into piles: take to Mex, throw away, put into storage, sell or give-away.

     I find myself this June facing the same thing. This time I’m in Arizona and in a 3 bedroom manufactured home with my stuff, Bob’s stuff, stuff we inherited from his mother and grandmother and of course my mother!
    The next four weeks I must downsize to fit into a smaller 2 bedroom manufactured home. Fortunately, I’ll have the same landlady, a lower rent than I’m paying now, AND it is just across the street. Whereas the move to Mexico was several thousand miles away across the border with lots of “stuff,” four people and a cat.

 Bob and I had flown down and found our taxi driver who was the key to a smooth move. Here we are eating at a wonderful restaurant, he'd recommended, out on a terrace overlooking the street.
 
     Our taxi drive, Jose’, used his resources and knowledge of Americans in Guadalajara, realtors, etc. and drove us around to find a home we could rent. Having chosen our favorite one, we flew back home to begin the processes of consolidating household goods stored in Tennessee, Oakland (from Kwaj) and my mother’s house, then actually making arrangements for the move to a foreign country. DEFINITELY NOT ACROSS THE STREET!
Video taken going out of my front porch, panning across the street you can briefly see the house I'll be moving to July 15th
SORRY THIS VIDEO DOES NOT PLAY...I HOPED IT WOULD. 
    Me, Mom and Bri, along with Harriet the cat (in a cat carrier), our personal luggage and carry on bags, caught a unique bus in Ontario, California. It’s service was designed for people going down and across the border into Mexico. Bags were loaded on the roof, and off we went. I don’t think it went through customs, but we ended up on a hill above a station accepting these buses, and everyone debarked with their stuff, tried to find their bags and haul them down the hill to find a taxi to take us to the airport. We had reservations to fly to Guadalajara from there. Quite an adventure. Amazing we arrived with everything we’d pack, and in pretty good shape. Jose’ had shown us a hotel, near a shopping center, and Sandborn’s, a favorite American Ex-patriot restaurant, bookstore, and shop, where we had made reservations. Knowing ahead of time that we’d be there a couple weeks until Bob arrived, and then our household goods in a moving van arrived, we settled in.
     Bob packed up our Nissan Sentra, finalized closing my mom’s house which we’d cleaned and rented out, supervised the packing of our moving van, then proceeded to drive down to the border in Tijuana, and crossed with no problems, then drove down to Guadalajara. He took many photos on his trip down. It took quite a few days. Yes, he’d began learning words in Spanish. His quest to learn a new language had begun.
Mom and I knew we needed beds, living and dining room furniture, so we went shopping. Jose’ was our guide and transportation for all of this. Fortunately, we had a really nice retirement settlement and had the money to pay for all of this! It was really quite fun. Who doesn’t love picking out furniture and watching the budget, but knowing you could pay for it all.
Bob and the Nissan arrived safely, here is our new house in Guadalajara.

     My situation monetarily with my current move isn’t quite the same. I am getting rid of furniture, eating dehydrated meals supplemented by a few fresh grocery items and no cushion of savings in the bank. On the positive side, I am meeting wonderful families who are physically helping me go through all the books and food storage area, office and family history “stuff” and lifting the trash out to my garbage container. Just this morning the truck came hauling away my second week’s worth of heavy stuff including paperback books, ring binders, and hundreds of old cassette tapes and their containers. 
     And that dehydrated beef stew I made yesterday was actually quite good. A dollop of sour cream and a dash of garlic powder, slice of garlic bread and a salad, made for a tasty lunch. Then for dinner I made burritos with left over stew stuffing, refried beans and Monterey Jack cheese. Mmmm. Creative cooking again, I am next facing going through all of my cookbooks, recipe cards, and making decision which ones to keep and which to throw away and which ones to give away.

     I have several cookbooks from Mexico, but that’s another story.

Friday, February 13, 2015

LAURA BUSH ADDRESSES ROOTSTECH 2015
James Tanner, a blogger friend, says "Laura Bush and her daughter, Jenna Bush Hager. She says every child in America should learn to read. Reading is not just a cause, but a passion of her life. Talks about the National Book Festival. You need to hear her account of September 11th and time following. When all is said and done. We as genealogists need to embrace a more expansive view of what we do and why we do it. We also need to adopt a more inclusive, rather than exclusive attitude towards history and our own history. Laura Bush is an important part of our history. Let's embrace that history as we learn about our individual heritage."
This quote about Laura Bush's address as a Keynote speaker at RootsTech 2015 this morning addresses the central question of What are we Doing and Why are we Doing it? I go back to the church's main reason for changing the name of what we do:
Family History from Genealogy
It is not the "study of...genes" and we are not professionals. Instead we ARE experts of our own family. Now we have the tools and resources to add the LIFE to our own histories. We can add the spoken or sung word, we can attach documents that have been digitized, we can add photos, obituaries and tombstone data, we can learn about the places, times and customs of our ancestors. And now in the new Family Discovery Centers we can even see ourselves dressed in the period clothing worn by our ancestors. So Cool.
The Idea of Asking Yourself Five Questions
The concept of Everyone can spend just 90 seconds asking themselves to write the completion of this sentence:   
"I Remember...."
Now, complete the sentence five times. I fell asleep last night thinking of dozens of I remember when and I remember what, and I remember who, and this is what bloggers do. They tie their past to the present by remembering. That's why I've named my blog Malachi 3:16 so that I remember and I communicate often to others who love the Lord.

Also, Devin Ashby, from FamilySearch, in his talk on what's new, said when he asked his very young daughter to do this by drawing a map of the five things she remembered, She did this amazing drawing. Then he recorded her explaining her drawing on his phone. Oh my gosh. This tiny little voice captured for all of her descendants to hear. Wish I'd had my mom's voice on tape.

I remember my next door neighbor, Donna Belle Uebele, writing a poem about me 1956.

This is me (age 12) and the window on the right is my bedroom
Donna Belle's dining room window is to the left
Donna would buy me books at the Goodwill store..."The Beverly Gray Mystery Series" and we could borrow any of her kids books, too. Did I adore this woman? Yes. I love a good mystery to this day.
Winner of the Innovators Showcase is StoryWorth
I have questions sent to me every so often from Legacy Stories and do I answer them? All this for free, and we've been asked to write our own story for posterity, so did it motivate me? Did the jar with little questions on slips of paper motivate my husband to tell his story? NO 
Now, would I pay for this even if I could answer by phone every week? NO
How many descendants do I have... one daughter and three grandchildren under 8. Are they interested in my stories.... NO

Why Do I Continue to Record my Thoughts and Stories here?

Guess I can't answer that but with other questions. Do I have the gene that urges, no compels me to keep a journal? Is there a record keeping gene that is passed down? Am I so conceited that I think others will care what I think or write?

It is these questions and concerns that probably have kept me from writing online in my blog consistently during the past year. Yet, I return, determined to repent and get busy again. I resolve to TWEET, BLOG, post on FACEBOOK, keep a Pinterest account and prompt me to buy a new SMART PHONE to replace my dumb one. Will I keep my landline? Yes. Why? Probably nostalgia because even though he was just a room away, my husband Bob would call me once a day to say hi with his sexy voice right in my ear. Sure wish I had a phone line to heaven and he could talk to me again.

Wednesday, February 22, 2012

A Week of Learning About New Technology in Family History

Changes Good or Maybe Not so Good
I am very slow to take up a new technology or jump onto a new improvement in software, websites, etc. I remember upgrading a software program and HATING what I'd done. There were so many glitches that needed fixed and I wondered if the programmers were idiots!!! Had they not tested, Alpha Tested, Beta Tested and Fixed 99.99% of the problems? Good Grief. Anyway, you may have guessed that I have not gone upgrading my FaceBook into the new Timeline yet. Reading others FB pages is still a confusing thing for me. But then I haven't studied out how to use it yet. So, I guess I have no excuses.
Changing my Home Page
Changing my Home Page seemed like a really big task and I feared it, but as I had my daughter (25 year olds just intuitively know about computers) look over my shoulder, found out that it was a cinch. I had decided to make this change after listening to some of the sessions at RootsTech2 . I NEVER used Yahoo to search and ALWAYS used Google. I had a Yahoo home page because of an old email address. But, it became obvious to me that in order to really search out all avenues while researching my ancestors info and helping others to do the same as a Ward Family History Consultant, I was not being very efficient and I'd fallen behind in knowing about all the tools and techniques available to me. I became convinced that now was the time to change. Thus, I changed my home page to Google AND added the Genealogy Gems toolbar. Please understand I am still learning about all of the bells and whistles of both of these and the learning curve for this 67 soon to be 68 year old is slow and steady.
Online Learning is Just Perfect for us Older Genealogists
Now, I am going to set aside some time each day to listen to a podcast or a video about Genealogy to begin learning what I don't know and now need to know to keep current. Today I listed to Lisa Cooke's interview with Dick Eastman at RootsTech on "What is the Cloud?" I'd just asked my daughter this the other day and she'd replied that it was the ability to store, save records, documents on a very large fast super-server, that also gave you access to applications that could be used whenever needed. For instance on your ipod or ipad or smart phone without taking up the space on your hardware itself. Also, other people if granted permission, could have access to the same documents. This is especially helpful in business. AND in GENEALOGY for working with other researchers. Right at this point in time I don't have an ipad or ipod or smart phone, BUT I will have one day, so I am beginning to learn what I need to know now.
Stepping Off the Solid Earth into Cyberspace and the Cloud
You'll never guess why I wanted to know about the Cloud... well, I am going to begin a series in my blog on "A Genealogist Looks at Isaiah," and post what I see on this blog. The Cloud idea came while studying Chapter 19 in Isaiah.
SCRIPTURE: "The Lord rideth upon a swift cloud." --Isaiah 19:1
Yes, I know that I'm a genealogy nut and this may seem like an obscure reference to a "Swift Cloud" but hey, what the heck, why shouldn't I personalize the scriptures. Most clouds aren't "swift" yet swift is one of the attributes of what Cloud Computing is all about. Worldwide access to information in an instant. My Isaiah study will become a sub series of blogs that I will post here. You will be able to find what I do on this topic by searching under Isaiah studies in the search box.

Wednesday, February 8, 2012

What is Your Ninevah?

SCRIPTURE:  “Despise not the chastening of the Lord nor faint when thou art rebuked of Him: For whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth.”
–Hebrews 12:6

“Remember to Study Your Patriarchal Blessing with a Prayer”


            In our patriarchal blessings we find subtle warnings and admonitions that will teach us if we identify them through inspiration. These are often hidden among the blessings as a phrase. Quite often the word admonition or Beware is found. Not always is the subject of that warning apparent.
            Sometimes these  warnings come in a conditional phrase form using If…then. For example: “If you are faithful…you will…” and so on.
            In other cases, the IF and THEN are implied, for example: “(implied IF you will) Be mindful of your parents (implied then) you shall be successful in seeking out the knowledge of your forefathers.”
            Sometimes these subtle warnings are referred to as admonitions with a promise. However, these difficult to find sentences can be yielded up to your understanding if you search diligently and study your personal scripture. If you do this, then you will have life changing insight about God’s plan for your life. ( notice that conditional phrase?)
            At one point in my life, I pondered if Heavenly Father would admonish me about something he knew would never be a problem for me. This would be like an earthly parent that knew one child was fearful of fire at an early age and a sibling was absolutely fascinated by the flame. Which child is the parent going to admonish by saying, “Be careful, don’t touch, or you will get burned?”
            Here are some examples of admonitions with promises: 
Admonition “through persistence and effort…”
Promise“you will be successful in your studies and will obtain the knowledge necessary to have a successful career.”
Admonition “honor your priesthood, study the scriptures and develop the skills God has given you…” “ be active in civic affairs,” “be prompt and dependable,” “come to know Jesus Christ.”
Promise “and you will receive many opportunities to lead, both inside and outside of the Church.”

MY QUESTION FOR YOU: So what if you are shy and can’t possibly even imagine being active in civic affairs? What then?
            We are very lucky to have our personal scripture from the Lord. But sometimes we just ignore some of those phrases in our patriarchal blessing. If you have such a phrase, that may be your Nineveh.

MY SUGGESTION: Find your admonitions with a promise or warnings from the Lord remembering that they may be subtle or implied.
THOUGHT: The story of Jonah can be very valuable in providing insight in recognizing our own weaknesses, deficiencies, areas where we remain disobedient or even parts of our lives where we simply neglect an important matter that the Lord feels we should do.
            Jonah was a prophet of the Lord. The Lord asked Jonah to go to Nineveh to preach repentance unto the people there. What did Jonah do? He tried to “flee from the presence of the LORD, and went down to Joppa;” –Jonah 1:3 where he got on a ship to Tarshish. The results were pretty dramatic. His fellow shipmates knew that he was a prophet and had fled from his responsibility or revelation from God because he had told them. When the dangerous winds came up, they knew he was the reason even though they were heathens. Jonah told them to throw him overboard, but they didn’t want to do it because they recognized the greatness in him and his calling. But finally they did what he asked of them, and threw him overboard. The sea immediately calmed.
            Jonah would rather die that go to Nineveh! But the Lord prepared a safety net for Jonah, a whale (large fish.) After three days and three nights (sound familiar) he called upon the Lord and repented. His thoughts looked toward the holy temple where he had received an answer to prayer and said, “They that observe lying vanities, forsake their own mercy.” –Jonah 2:8 He simply was not being honest with himself or the Lord. The  whale vomited him up and he finally went to Nineveh.
            This isn’t the end of the story, so you should read all of Jonah and apply it to yourselves and your own actions or inactions as the case may be. Hugh Nibley once wrote, “The book of Isaiah is a tract for our own times; our very aversion to it testifies to its relevance.”[1]
            Aren’t we funny? We don’t want to face up to something so we have this aversion to it, even though it is for our own good and perhaps even our own sanctification. I remember think that Jacob 5 was confusing and boring and repetitive. When I became aware of the fact that I was ignoring it and just reading it over quickly, I repented. One family home evening, we enacted this chapter as a family. It changed my perspective immediately. Understanding this chapter has opened up revelations in other scriptures AND has shown me my place in the latter-day scheme of things.
            So, the Lord can take our aversion or weakness and turn it right around and it can be come a strength to us. Guess you’ll just have to go by faith and tackle your Nineveh, once it is found. It could be as simple as pride. . . knowing that you’ve done everything that the Lord has required of you. Hmmmm Is that really ever true? Have we kept the letter of the law and not the spirit of the law, and sat back looking smug?
            We must ask ourselves why Jonah ran from the Lord’s command and why he was prepared to die rather than actually do what the Lord requested, and was ready to die again after he’d done it because he didn’t think the Lord should have saved Nineveh even though he knew the Lord promised he would. You’ll find stubborn Jonah wanting to die three times rather than “face” himself and his weaknesses.

QUOTE:
“If we are open to it, needed correction will come in many forms and from many sources.”

“Chastening may come as we study the scriptures and are reminded of deficiencies, disobedience or simply matters neglected.”
“Eventually, much of our chastening should come from within—we should become self-correcting.” –Ensign May 2011, “As Many as I Love, I Rebuke and Chasten,” Elder D. Todd Christofferson, pages 99, 100.

            My thoughts are that the study of Isaiah and finding that the Lord wants you to be a Savior on Mt. Zion are two of the most neglected and procrastinated commands that the Lord has given us in these Latter-days. I think we ignore these at the peril of our own salvation.
The Lord is ever quick to throw us a safety net. We might not have to spend three days and three nights in the belly of a whale, but we can indeed expect that we will have to spend some time to overcome our aversion to those admonitions that appear in our inspired patriarchal blessings. It may very well be, that this is the very thing we are expected to overcome in this mortal probation.
            I pray that we may be self-correcting and rely on the Lord and his mercy.

[1] “The Collected Works of Hugh Nibley: Volume1 “Old Testament and Related Studies” Hugh Nibley, 1986, Deseret Book (Salt Lake City, UT) and the Foundation for Ancient Research and Mormon Studies (Provo, UT) Chapter 8 Great are the Words of Isaiah, page 215