Thursday, February 9, 2012

Valentine's Day, Birthdays and Anniversaries

            With Valentine's Day approaching, we start thinking about people we love. We think of our sweethearts. We think about our parents, and our children. Children think about their friends and their teachers. So, why is this date so important? It's really only a day in February, right? Yet, more flowers and cards and jewelry gifts are purchased for loved ones for this particular day that almost any other day throughout the year.
      We Love to Be Loved
            Humans really like to celebrate special days, and if it's set aside as a day to express our love, we're all for it. And the Lord, really likes certain days too. He set aside Sundays for rest. Then there are all of those Old Testament celebrations that are remembered every year or season after season. Bet you never thought about why the Lord likes certain dates, have you? I'm going to talk about this more in my next blog, but now I'd like you to go get out your patriarchal blessing and look at it. What date is there?

"To See if You Have Additional Insight into Your Blessing, Read it With Prayer"

SCRIPTURE:
            “And behold, all things have their likeness, and all things are created and made to bear record of me, both things which are temporal, and things which are spiritual; things which are in the heavens above, and things which are on the earth, and things which are in the earth, and things which are under the earth, both above and beneath: all things bear record of me.”–Moses 6:63           
           
            The scriptures are full of dates, places and events. Many of these have significant symbolic meaning to Latter-day Saints. In fact there is a certain consistency within our scriptures about the importance of dates, days, times and seasons, as well as anniversary celebrations of many types. These are all days of remembrance just like Valentine's Day, or Birthdays or Anniversaries.

MY QUESTION FOR YOU:  What is the date was your patriarchal blessing given?
I’m not saying that this particular date is fraught with heavy significance, but it is useful in pondering a few things. How old were you when the Lord parted the veil to speak to your stake patriarch about your mission in life? How old was Joseph Smith when God began talking with him?
There is some significance that our Latter-day youth are usually in their teens when they receive their patriarchal blessings. New converts often receive their own blessings within the first two years of active membership. The Lord wants to be sure to give each of us a heads up on what our mortal life should be about as soon as we are able to understand the importance of His will for us.
            I hadn’t placed much importance on that January day as a twenty-two year old convert, when my stake patriarch placed his hands on my head to provide me with a road map to guide me, pronounce blessings to protect and encourage me, and speak such wonderful promises that have uplifted me throughout my life. Now, I am placing this date to remember on my calendar, because I am filled with gratitude for the guidance it has given me.
            I think feeling grateful for the Lord’s watchful care over us is so very comforting. Our expression of this in prayer to our Heavenly Father pays Him the reverence we owe deity. Our debt of gratitude is the essence of our act of remembering.

Wednesday, February 8, 2012

What is Your Ninevah?

SCRIPTURE:  “Despise not the chastening of the Lord nor faint when thou art rebuked of Him: For whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth.”
–Hebrews 12:6

“Remember to Study Your Patriarchal Blessing with a Prayer”


            In our patriarchal blessings we find subtle warnings and admonitions that will teach us if we identify them through inspiration. These are often hidden among the blessings as a phrase. Quite often the word admonition or Beware is found. Not always is the subject of that warning apparent.
            Sometimes these  warnings come in a conditional phrase form using If…then. For example: “If you are faithful…you will…” and so on.
            In other cases, the IF and THEN are implied, for example: “(implied IF you will) Be mindful of your parents (implied then) you shall be successful in seeking out the knowledge of your forefathers.”
            Sometimes these subtle warnings are referred to as admonitions with a promise. However, these difficult to find sentences can be yielded up to your understanding if you search diligently and study your personal scripture. If you do this, then you will have life changing insight about God’s plan for your life. ( notice that conditional phrase?)
            At one point in my life, I pondered if Heavenly Father would admonish me about something he knew would never be a problem for me. This would be like an earthly parent that knew one child was fearful of fire at an early age and a sibling was absolutely fascinated by the flame. Which child is the parent going to admonish by saying, “Be careful, don’t touch, or you will get burned?”
            Here are some examples of admonitions with promises: 
Admonition “through persistence and effort…”
Promise“you will be successful in your studies and will obtain the knowledge necessary to have a successful career.”
Admonition “honor your priesthood, study the scriptures and develop the skills God has given you…” “ be active in civic affairs,” “be prompt and dependable,” “come to know Jesus Christ.”
Promise “and you will receive many opportunities to lead, both inside and outside of the Church.”

MY QUESTION FOR YOU: So what if you are shy and can’t possibly even imagine being active in civic affairs? What then?
            We are very lucky to have our personal scripture from the Lord. But sometimes we just ignore some of those phrases in our patriarchal blessing. If you have such a phrase, that may be your Nineveh.

MY SUGGESTION: Find your admonitions with a promise or warnings from the Lord remembering that they may be subtle or implied.
THOUGHT: The story of Jonah can be very valuable in providing insight in recognizing our own weaknesses, deficiencies, areas where we remain disobedient or even parts of our lives where we simply neglect an important matter that the Lord feels we should do.
            Jonah was a prophet of the Lord. The Lord asked Jonah to go to Nineveh to preach repentance unto the people there. What did Jonah do? He tried to “flee from the presence of the LORD, and went down to Joppa;” –Jonah 1:3 where he got on a ship to Tarshish. The results were pretty dramatic. His fellow shipmates knew that he was a prophet and had fled from his responsibility or revelation from God because he had told them. When the dangerous winds came up, they knew he was the reason even though they were heathens. Jonah told them to throw him overboard, but they didn’t want to do it because they recognized the greatness in him and his calling. But finally they did what he asked of them, and threw him overboard. The sea immediately calmed.
            Jonah would rather die that go to Nineveh! But the Lord prepared a safety net for Jonah, a whale (large fish.) After three days and three nights (sound familiar) he called upon the Lord and repented. His thoughts looked toward the holy temple where he had received an answer to prayer and said, “They that observe lying vanities, forsake their own mercy.” –Jonah 2:8 He simply was not being honest with himself or the Lord. The  whale vomited him up and he finally went to Nineveh.
            This isn’t the end of the story, so you should read all of Jonah and apply it to yourselves and your own actions or inactions as the case may be. Hugh Nibley once wrote, “The book of Isaiah is a tract for our own times; our very aversion to it testifies to its relevance.”[1]
            Aren’t we funny? We don’t want to face up to something so we have this aversion to it, even though it is for our own good and perhaps even our own sanctification. I remember think that Jacob 5 was confusing and boring and repetitive. When I became aware of the fact that I was ignoring it and just reading it over quickly, I repented. One family home evening, we enacted this chapter as a family. It changed my perspective immediately. Understanding this chapter has opened up revelations in other scriptures AND has shown me my place in the latter-day scheme of things.
            So, the Lord can take our aversion or weakness and turn it right around and it can be come a strength to us. Guess you’ll just have to go by faith and tackle your Nineveh, once it is found. It could be as simple as pride. . . knowing that you’ve done everything that the Lord has required of you. Hmmmm Is that really ever true? Have we kept the letter of the law and not the spirit of the law, and sat back looking smug?
            We must ask ourselves why Jonah ran from the Lord’s command and why he was prepared to die rather than actually do what the Lord requested, and was ready to die again after he’d done it because he didn’t think the Lord should have saved Nineveh even though he knew the Lord promised he would. You’ll find stubborn Jonah wanting to die three times rather than “face” himself and his weaknesses.

QUOTE:
“If we are open to it, needed correction will come in many forms and from many sources.”

“Chastening may come as we study the scriptures and are reminded of deficiencies, disobedience or simply matters neglected.”
“Eventually, much of our chastening should come from within—we should become self-correcting.” –Ensign May 2011, “As Many as I Love, I Rebuke and Chasten,” Elder D. Todd Christofferson, pages 99, 100.

            My thoughts are that the study of Isaiah and finding that the Lord wants you to be a Savior on Mt. Zion are two of the most neglected and procrastinated commands that the Lord has given us in these Latter-days. I think we ignore these at the peril of our own salvation.
The Lord is ever quick to throw us a safety net. We might not have to spend three days and three nights in the belly of a whale, but we can indeed expect that we will have to spend some time to overcome our aversion to those admonitions that appear in our inspired patriarchal blessings. It may very well be, that this is the very thing we are expected to overcome in this mortal probation.
            I pray that we may be self-correcting and rely on the Lord and his mercy.

[1] “The Collected Works of Hugh Nibley: Volume1 “Old Testament and Related Studies” Hugh Nibley, 1986, Deseret Book (Salt Lake City, UT) and the Foundation for Ancient Research and Mormon Studies (Provo, UT) Chapter 8 Great are the Words of Isaiah, page 215

Tuesday, February 7, 2012

The Difficulties of a New Technology

Writing VS Typing
As I began writing in my journal this morning, I began reflecting on how much I've enjoyed writing with a black ink pen. Now that I am blogging, I am not quite so comfortable with typing. So here is how my train of thought went.
When I first began writing on a consistent basis it was on the island of Kwajalein where we lived in the 1990's after I read the book "The Artist's Way" by Julia Cameron. She initiated me into "morning pages" where you are supposed to write three pages longhand right when you get up, not censoring, just writing whatever comes into your head. Amazing things came out. Some good and some bad. After the 12 weeks of this type of writing and completing the "program" I used this time to write in my journal since I'd began a "habit." I had discovered that early morning prayer, reflection and writing in my journal was spiritually very satisfying. The writing often brought revelation under this circumstances. I am grateful for the habit that developed back at that time.
Typing my blog is similar, but it isn't yet so satisfying as the written word, or rather writing the words with a pen.
Moroni Had a Similar Issue
I can imagine the prophets who lived during the Book of Mormon times having similar issues because they had to write on plates of metal. Moroni says during his abridgement of the records or plates in Ether 12:23-29.
SCRIPTURE: "And I said unto him: Lord, the Gentiles will mock these things, because of our weakness in writing; for Lord thou hast made us mighty in word by faith, but thou hast not made us mighty in writing; for thou hast made all this people that they could speak much, because of the Holy Ghost which thou hast given them;"
"And thou hast made us that we could write but little, because of the awkwardness of our hands. Behold, thou hast not made us mighty unto writing like unto the brother of Jared, for thou madest him that the things he wrote were mighty even as thou art, unto the overpowering of man to read them;"
"Thou hast also made our words powerful and great, even that we cannot write them; wherefore, when we write we behold our weakness, and stumble because of the placing of our words (on metal plates); and I fear lest the Gentiles shall mock our words."
"And when I had said this, the Lord spake unto me, saying: Fools mock, but they shall mourn; and my grace is sufficient for the meek, that they shall take no advantage of your weakness."
"And if men come unto me I will show unto them their weakness. I give unto men weakness that they may be humble; and my grace is sufficient for all men that humble themselves before me, and have faith in me, then will I make weak things become strong unto them."
This is what I am hoping the Lord will do for me while writing Malachi 3:16. and I will say as did Moroni:
"And I Moroni having heard these words, was comforted.

Monday, February 6, 2012

I am on a RootsTech High!

Couldn't get the online streaming to work on Thursday, but watched everything available on Friday and Saturday. Yipee! All in the comfort of my home. Isn't technology wonderful. Yesterday was a day of incubation for the many, many ideas that I've got. Thanks to Jay Verkler for helping initiate the idea of RootsTech as a conference for techies to share and provide the excitement that is the impetus for great new breakthroughs. It is us older technogrannies that benefit the most.

Now, I have to study all ten pages of notes I took and begin implementing them (those that don't require buying expensive new things, that is.) This is so exciting that I can hardly contain myself. I have definitely got a new perspective on what my blog is and the potential it has. Yep, I'm gonna step up to the technological challenge and just DO IT. So watch between my last postings this month on the subject of patriarchal blessings for a lot of new stuff, designed for helping me share my expertise AND solve my genealogical conundrums.

Friday, February 3, 2012

My Genealogical Bucket List

Geniaus one of the bloggers covering the RootsTech Conference in Salt Lake posted this before going on this trip and asked others of us to send her their lists. I am posting this list, but realize that my conference days seem to be over and I am way behind times in answering most of these questions.


The Bucket List by GeneaMeme
The list should be annotated in the following manner:
Things you would like to do or find: Bold Type
Things you haven’t done or found and don’t care to: plain type

You are encouraged to add extra comments after each item 
  1. The genealogy conference I would most like to attend is...RootsTech 2013
  2. The genealogy speaker I would most like to hear and see is...just about anyone working on character recognition for ancient chinese genealogical records
  3. The geneablogger I would most like to meet in person is...James Tanner Genealogysstar.blogspot
  4. The genealogy writer I would most like to have dinner with is...
  5. The genealogy lecture I would most like to present is...."Isaiah foresaw this technology"
  6. I would like to go on a genealogy cruise that visits....Chattanooga to Nashville on TN River
  7. The photo I would most like to find is...
  8. The repository in a foreign land I would most like to visit is...in Germany home of Eckels
  9. The place of worship I would most like to visit is...Westminster Abbey, England where my Aunt Nell died as a tourist.
  10. The cemetery I would most like to visit is ...... where Richard Hicks of Sullivan Co, TN RIP
  11. The ancestral town or village I would most like to visit is.....Baltimore, Maryland.
  12. The brick wall I most want to smash is...Proving Richard Hicks(1760) wife's name
  13. The piece of software I most want to buy is....voice recognition software Dragon Naturally Speaking to read my journals into digital form.
  14. The tech toy I want to purchase next is ..... an ipad2!
  15. The expensive book I would most like to buy is...
  16. The library I would most like to visit is....John Hopkins University Library to scour their Merryman Family- Micajah Merryman collection for references about Hicks in Sullivan County, TN
  17. The genealogy related book I would most like to write is...read that Website not Book in my case
  18. The genealogy blog I would most like to start would be about....already began Malachi 3:16
  19. The journal article I would most like to write would be about...Sullivan County TN Crossroads
  20. The ancestor I most want to meet in the afterlife is....Richard Hicks' real proven father, not just the one every researcher has leaped to conclusions about... William Hicks of Baltimore, MD.
Is there anything else on your Genealogy Bucket List? Yes, I'd like the new HP Omni 27 Quad Extreme power with a 2nd Gen Intel® Core™ i5 processor a. Visibly smart performance with a boost.
With the modern edge-to-edge infinity glass & 25° tilt, it's the ultimate multimedia hub with quick access to all of your files!
Might as well dream BIG.

Thursday, February 2, 2012

I am Following RootsTech Conference via Bloggers

I Can't Attend RootsTech2 in Salt Lake, 
But I can Follow What's Happening in Detail
Wow, I can't attend but it's like being right there. 
I am following James Tanner's blog, GenealogysStar
Here is his bio: Born in Utah, but with family roots deep in Arizona history, James has degrees in Spanish, Linguistics and Law. He has been involved in various computer businesses and practiced law for 36 years. As a genealogist, James serves as a volunteer and missionary at the Mesa (Arizona) Regional Family History Center. He is married and has 30 grandchildren.
James earned a B.A. in Spanish and M.A. in Linguistics with a minor in the History of the English Language, both from the University of Utah. He holds a J.D. in Law from Arizona State University. James practiced real estate law for over 35 years with an emphasis on trusts and estate litigation. He has owned several computer businesses including an Apple dealership and obtained various certifications as a computer technician. He started the Arizona Macintosh Users Group. For several years James taught at local community colleges, teaching classes in Spanish, Law and Computer Information Systems. He has more than 25 years of experience researching genealogy and has served for many years as a volunteer and a missionary at the Mesa Regional Family History Center. James also teaches classes on computer program related topics and has done extensive research in genealogy in many different states and countries. 
There are many other bloggers and it will be fun to "peek into" what they are writing during the day. I've already found out important topics including the release of the 1940 US Census, legislation on the Social Security Death Index that might remove this important genealogical tool from public use (they aren't letting genealogists testify! and are using scare tactics to get this passed (whats new?), FamilySearch is changing CEOs from a Technology Guru to a Business Guru (hmmmm, I love what the retiring guy did: like helping start the world talking about what's needed in last year's inaugural RootsTech Conference) and about new words and new organizations and how Dave Barney from Google says links are going to disappear.
There are 16 other bloggers at RootsTech

Jill Ball - Geniaus - http://geniaus.blogspot.com/  (she is from Australia)

Lisa Louise Cooke - Genealogy Gems Podcast

Amy Coffin - The We Tree Genealogy Blog

DearMyrtle - http://blog.dearmyrtle.com/

Dick Eastman's Online Genealogy Newsletter

Holly T. Hansen - Family History Expos

The Ancestry Insider

Thomas MacEntee - GeneaBloggers

Sue Maxwell - Granite Genealogy

Joan Miller - Luxegen Genealogy

Lorine McGinnis Schulze - Olive Tree Genealogy 

Randy Seaver - Genea-Musings

Nancy Shively - Gathering Stories

Schelly Talalay Dardashti - Tracing the Tribe

Julie Cahill Tarr - GenBlog

Renee Zamora - Renee's Genealogy Blog

Most of the above are links if you discover my blog in the blogosphere, and wish to go see what any of these people had to say about the Conference from Wednesday's registration and welcoming events through Saturday's final sessions. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Wednesday, February 1, 2012

Remembering Mom - She'd be 100 Today!

Happy Birthday, Mom
Vivian Ruthe was born 1 Feb 1912 in Kansas City, Missouri. Her parents were Herschel Elmer Utterback and Rosa Etta Sarepta Hicks. She was a "corker" according to her mother when she sent a picture of her to her grandfather, Thomas Jefferson Hicks.
Born in February my mom was always the unique individual.
Ruthe Age 18 months

Like her mother Rosa, she loved to sew and loved dolls from an early age. Her mother died when she was 12 and her step-mother was not so nice. In fact she shut her in the closet when she disobeyed (and what "corker" wouldn't test the rules) so in later years she was known for her claustrophobia.
Her favorite Uncle was "Lige" Ruthe is shown peeking over him along with all of her dolls and their furnature

She loved beautiful dresses and three generations have worn this blue velvet dress. Me and my daughter wore it for a Halloween costume. The photo below was taken at Musso & Frank's New Years' Eve 1946.
In 1960 I am seen with my "Mummy" at our High School Backwards Dance wearing the famous Blue Velvet Dress seen on my mother to the right.

She wasn't always glamorous, but was ready to do her part during World War II. She worked for Lockheed in their drafting department. She rode this scooter to work every day, even when she was pregnant with me.

After I was born, She turned her sewing talents to making clothing for her two daughters. This photo shows the beautiful blue and pink coats she made us for Christmas. They had little ermine tails and we had muffs to match.
Every year we'd visit Santa at Bullocks in Pasadena, California. My mom made our dresses and coats. I am about four years old and my sister is about two and a half.
One of my favorite photos was taken professionally when she came to visit my family in Arkansas in 1983.
The act of Remembering is one of love and we should always be found in remembrance of those in our family who were special to us. My husband asked me what I would recall about my mother besides her unique tell it like it is way of living. I said, she was the kindest, most thoughtful person I've ever known. Yes, she was a character! I often find myself using her funny slang phrases, or sticking my tongue out like she did when she didn't like something, but I mostly remember all the little notes, letters and cards she sent and the crafted (usually knit or crochet) goodies she made for others. She NEVER forgot a birthday, either in her family or in her church ward family where she served as ward and stake Relief Society secretary.
So how could I forget her 100th birthday! Happy Birthday, Mom.