Monday, February 20, 2012

Targeting - Tool for Setting Good Goals with Your Patriarchal Blessing - Part 3

TARGETING:
            1. Knowing what has to be done…creating spiritually or conceptualizing
            2. Knowing how to do it…study specifics to understand what is required
            3. Ascertain if the goal is keyed realistically to available resources and abilities
An intention is something you make up your mind to do. To become a goal, it must be written down. A target is something that actually draws your attention toward it—that forces a certain line of action. An intention becomes a target when given certain properties. Not all targets are equally important.
            A desire or intention has no concreteness, no tangibility, it is not something you can set your sights on or aim at—its not a target.
            How to construct a target:
            1. Create a Place for the Target (visualize a clear area appropriate for goal)
2. Set up a Visible Target (make a real world object like an excel spreadsheet, workpage, or use a calendar, refrigerator sign, journal diagram, note on the mirror, poster on the bedroom door, etc.)
            3. Paint a Bull’s eye (set a deadline to reach the goal)
Here is an example of what I am talking about:
Selected phrase from blessing: Seek Him diligently in fervant and honest prayer.
Research words diligent: Diligence is characterized by steady earnest, energentic application of effort and is derived from latin words meaning to select, esteem or love. Therefore diligence differs from perserverance, where one persists against, in spite of, counter influences, opposition or discouragement, in that it is used to indicate one has chosen or selected to do something out of esteem or love.
Fervant: exhibiting or marked by great intensity of feeling; hot or glowing (as with holy ghost)
Honest: Free of deceit and untruthfulness; sincere, frank; characterized by truth; not false; Virtuous; chaste.
Prayerfully select how to implement an improvement over current mode of prayer using these definitions: My example will focus on showing diligence by setting goals for increasing the amount of time I spend in my personal prayers, seeking the Holy Ghost to be with me and striving for personal worthiness.
                                                            date began   target date   accomplished    fervant?
Prayer length
3 minutes

February 1


5 minutes

April 1


10 minutes

June 1

Next, set a day and time to review how well you did each week: I.E., every Sunday at 7 am.

QUOTE:  2011 October General Conference talk by Elder Ian S. Ardern, quorum of the Seventy, entitled “A Time to Prepare.”
 “The eighth chapter of Preach My Gospel focuses our attention on the wise use of time. In this chapter, Elder M. Russell Ballard reminds us that we must set goals and learn how to master the techniques to achieve them (see Preach My Gospel: A Guide to Missionary Service [2004], 146). Mastering the techniques needed to reach our goals includes becoming the master manager of our time.”
            “Time is never for sale; time is a commodity that cannot, try as you may, be bought at any store for any price. Yet when time is wisely used, its value is immeasurable. On any given day we are all allocated, without cost, the same number of minutes and hours to use, and we soon learn, as the familiar hymn so carefully teaches, “Time flies on wings of lightning; we cannot call it back” (“Improve the Shining Moments,” Hymns, no. 226). What time we have we must use wisely. President Brigham Young said, “We are all indebted to God for the ability to use time to advantage, and he will require of us a strict account of [its] disposition” (Teachings of Presidents of the Church: Brigham Young [1997], 286).”
“With the demands made of us, we must learn to prioritize our choices to match our goals or risk being exposed to the winds of procrastination and being blown from one time-wasting activity to another. We are well taught about priorities by the Master Teacher when He declared in His Sermon on the Mount, “Wherefore, seek not the things of this world but seek ye first to build up the kingdom of God, and to establish his righteousness” (Matthew 6:33, footnote a; from Joseph Smith Translation, Matthew 6:38). (See also Dallin H. Oaks, “Focus and Priorities,” Liahona, July 2001, 99–102; Ensign, May 2001, 82–84.)”
            “To have the peace the Savior speaks of (see John 14:27), we must devote our time to the things that matter most, and the things of God matter most. As we engage with God in sincere prayer, read and study each day from the scriptures, ponder on what we have read and felt, and then apply and live the lessons learned, we draw nearer to Him. God’s promise is that as we seek diligently from the best books, “[He] shall give unto [us] knowledge by his Holy Spirit” (D&C 121:26; see also D&C 109:14–15).”
            “Satan will tempt us to misuse our time through disguised distractions. Although temptations will come, Elder Quentin L. Cook taught that “Saints who respond to the Savior’s message will not be led astray by distracting and destructive pursuits” (“Are You a Saint?” Liahona and Ensign, Nov. 2003, 96). Hiram Page, one of the Eight Witnesses of the Book of Mormon, taught us a valuable lesson about distractions. He had a certain stone and through it recorded what he thought were revelations for the Church (see D&C 28). On Hiram’s being corrected, an account says the stone was taken and ground into powder so it would never again be a distraction. I invite us to identify the time-wasting distractions in our lives that may need to be figuratively ground into dust.

THOUGHT:  Buy a new 3 ring binder/notebook with dividers and ruled paper for your journal of 2012.  Dividers could be used for these possible sections:
Your Patriarchal Blessing and associated studies
Goals with appropriate charts and record keeping spreadsheets
Daily or weekly journal entries

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